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	<title>Comments on: What Makes You a Lurker and Not a Commenter?</title>
	<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/</link>
	<description>Better Blog Tips for Bloggers, by the Original Blogging Bloke</description>
	<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jan 2009 01:51:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Blog Bloke</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-29592</link>
		<dc:creator>Blog Bloke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 12:09:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-29592</guid>
		<description>You are most welcome Olympia.</description>
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		<title>By: olympia</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-29393</link>
		<dc:creator>olympia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Oct 2008 15:13:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-29393</guid>
		<description>Thank you so much. I am new at this and you have been a world of help. All the best to you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much. I am new at this and you have been a world of help. All the best to you.</p>
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		<title>By: Blog Bloke</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-4684</link>
		<dc:creator>Blog Bloke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2008 05:52:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-4684</guid>
		<description>For a relatively new reader you are already well on to becoming one of the more prolific commenters here. Well done Raconteur!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For a relatively new reader you are already well on to becoming one of the more prolific commenters here. Well done Raconteur!</p>
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		<title>By: The Raconteur</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-4678</link>
		<dc:creator>The Raconteur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2008 02:42:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-4678</guid>
		<description>Well you can't really read this post and not comment. I'm not surprised someone up there said that their blog got the most comments on a post about comments... it's sort of like reading a sign that says... Say something already! Which is sort of funny.

Anyway. Post midnight ramblings aside...

I tend to comment when I feel I have something that should be said. Then again, I'm very new to all this so perhaps veteran members of the community might be a bit more 'meh' about it all.

I tend to NOT comment, as someone said above, I don't want to start an argument and commenting just to say I disagree with someone without being willing to discuss it further (I often am, by the way, willing to discuss it further) is rather pointless.

Probably the biggest reason I'd not comment would be if I were simply repeating other comments that have already amply stated whatever it was that I wanted to say.

Also, I believe I'm more likely to respond to a question, assuming it's an interesting one.

&lt;em&gt;The Raconteur's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://leftwingraconteur.blogspot.com/2008/03/re-raconteur-bible-what-about-jws.html' rel="nofollow"&gt;Re: The Raconteur Bible - What About the JWs?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well you can&#8217;t really read this post and not comment. I&#8217;m not surprised someone up there said that their blog got the most comments on a post about comments&#8230; it&#8217;s sort of like reading a sign that says&#8230; Say something already! Which is sort of funny.</p>
<p>Anyway. Post midnight ramblings aside&#8230;</p>
<p>I tend to comment when I feel I have something that should be said. Then again, I&#8217;m very new to all this so perhaps veteran members of the community might be a bit more &#8216;meh&#8217; about it all.</p>
<p>I tend to NOT comment, as someone said above, I don&#8217;t want to start an argument and commenting just to say I disagree with someone without being willing to discuss it further (I often am, by the way, willing to discuss it further) is rather pointless.</p>
<p>Probably the biggest reason I&#8217;d not comment would be if I were simply repeating other comments that have already amply stated whatever it was that I wanted to say.</p>
<p>Also, I believe I&#8217;m more likely to respond to a question, assuming it&#8217;s an interesting one.</p>
<p><em>The Raconteur&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://leftwingraconteur.blogspot.com/2008/03/re-raconteur-bible-what-about-jws.html' rel="nofollow">Re: The Raconteur Bible - What About the JWs?</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Blog Bloke</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-3867</link>
		<dc:creator>Blog Bloke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2008 10:03:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-3867</guid>
		<description>Ditto :) Well said Kathy. 

Here at Blog Bloke there's a small number of hardcore commenters and a huge number of readers who are lurkers. I've never been able to figure out why they are afraid to speak up or how to encourage them come out of the closet (so to speak).

&lt;strong&gt;No matter what the comment, I value each one of them and I just wish more readers would speak up&lt;/strong&gt;. Even if it's just a word of encouragement or to say hello.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ditto <img src='http://www.blogbloke.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> Well said Kathy. </p>
<p>Here at Blog Bloke there&#8217;s a small number of hardcore commenters and a huge number of readers who are lurkers. I&#8217;ve never been able to figure out why they are afraid to speak up or how to encourage them come out of the closet (so to speak).</p>
<p><strong>No matter what the comment, I value each one of them and I just wish more readers would speak up</strong>. Even if it&#8217;s just a word of encouragement or to say hello.</p>
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		<title>By: Kathy</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-3865</link>
		<dc:creator>Kathy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2008 02:32:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-3865</guid>
		<description>Bloke, 
I once had someone tell me they wanted to comment on my blog, but were afraid to write anything because "all the comments people leave are so witty, and I'm not witty." I felt bad for her and tried to convince her to comment anyway. Since I have a humor blog, I suppose some might think their comments must be laugh-out-loud funny, which is certainly not the case. In fact, I'm not over-the-top funny in my own responses to comments. I value every comment someone takes time to leave and never make anyone feel uncomfortable just being themselves, funny or not. As long as they're not crude or rude, any and every comment is welcome.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bloke,<br />
I once had someone tell me they wanted to comment on my blog, but were afraid to write anything because &#8220;all the comments people leave are so witty, and I&#8217;m not witty.&#8221; I felt bad for her and tried to convince her to comment anyway. Since I have a humor blog, I suppose some might think their comments must be laugh-out-loud funny, which is certainly not the case. In fact, I&#8217;m not over-the-top funny in my own responses to comments. I value every comment someone takes time to leave and never make anyone feel uncomfortable just being themselves, funny or not. As long as they&#8217;re not crude or rude, any and every comment is welcome.</p>
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		<title>By: Saugjouro</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-3863</link>
		<dc:creator>Saugjouro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Feb 2008 23:47:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-3863</guid>
		<description>I’d prefer reading in my native language, because my knowledge of your languange is no so well. But it was interesting!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’d prefer reading in my native language, because my knowledge of your languange is no so well. But it was interesting!</p>
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		<title>By: Blog Bloke</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2056</link>
		<dc:creator>Blog Bloke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2007 23:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2056</guid>
		<description>See... great minds do think alike :) Thanks for dropping by Brooke.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>See&#8230; great minds do think alike <img src='http://www.blogbloke.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> Thanks for dropping by Brooke.</p>
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		<title>By: Brooke</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2055</link>
		<dc:creator>Brooke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2007 21:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2055</guid>
		<description>I find that someone else has already said what I wanted to say or what I was thinking.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;This post is really good - so I added it to my blog!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find that someone else has already said what I wanted to say or what I was thinking.</p>
<p>This post is really good - so I added it to my blog!</p>
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		<title>By: Blog Bloke</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2054</link>
		<dc:creator>Blog Bloke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Aug 2007 23:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2054</guid>
		<description>&lt;i&gt;"They love me! They really, really love me!"&lt;/i&gt; ;-)&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;A very good synopsis there Mike and thanks for the comment. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The more that we can learn about the psychology of commenting the better we will all be at writing our posts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>&#8220;They love me! They really, really love me!&#8221;</i> <img src='http://www.blogbloke.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>A very good synopsis there Mike and thanks for the comment. </p>
<p>The more that we can learn about the psychology of commenting the better we will all be at writing our posts.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2053</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Aug 2007 14:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2053</guid>
		<description>Commenting is affected by so many things including available time, the tone of the post, whether there are any unanswered questions, whether the comment will add to the discussion and loads of other aspects.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Personally, if I disagree with a bloggers perspective, I tend not to post an inflammatory comment. I wouldn't turn up at someone elses house and tell them that their point of view sucks so why should I on a blog?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;That having been said, if I feel passionate about the subject and feel obligated to defend my own perspective then I may well be drawn into conversation but only if I know the blogger in question or am at least familiar with their work.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Anyway, nice work, BB. 26 comments and counting. Maybe we all still love you after all ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Commenting is affected by so many things including available time, the tone of the post, whether there are any unanswered questions, whether the comment will add to the discussion and loads of other aspects.</p>
<p>Personally, if I disagree with a bloggers perspective, I tend not to post an inflammatory comment. I wouldn&#8217;t turn up at someone elses house and tell them that their point of view sucks so why should I on a blog?</p>
<p>That having been said, if I feel passionate about the subject and feel obligated to defend my own perspective then I may well be drawn into conversation but only if I know the blogger in question or am at least familiar with their work.</p>
<p>Anyway, nice work, BB. 26 comments and counting. Maybe we all still love you after all <img src='http://www.blogbloke.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Blog Bloke</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2052</link>
		<dc:creator>Blog Bloke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Aug 2007 06:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2052</guid>
		<description>I'm glad you felt compelled to comment bun bun. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m glad you felt compelled to comment bun bun. <img src='http://www.blogbloke.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Bun Bun</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2051</link>
		<dc:creator>Bun Bun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Aug 2007 21:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2051</guid>
		<description>I comment if I feel Compelled to Comment.  Where doth the compelling come frometh?  Not sure;  Inside me, the topic of the post at hand, how the writer of the post expresses the thoughts and whether or not a question is asked, what I had for breakfast, which cup of coffee am I on, is my boss in the office… You know, compelling reasons lead me to be Compelled to Comment.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;(Nice job by the way, on this particular post.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I comment if I feel Compelled to Comment.  Where doth the compelling come frometh?  Not sure;  Inside me, the topic of the post at hand, how the writer of the post expresses the thoughts and whether or not a question is asked, what I had for breakfast, which cup of coffee am I on, is my boss in the office… You know, compelling reasons lead me to be Compelled to Comment.</p>
<p>(Nice job by the way, on this particular post.)</p>
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		<title>By: Blog Bloke</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2050</link>
		<dc:creator>Blog Bloke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Aug 2007 00:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2050</guid>
		<description>Tica, I think you are confusing the &lt;b&gt;comment&lt;/b&gt; page with the &lt;b&gt;post&lt;/b&gt; page. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The comment page is where you leave your comment. It is Blogger's page, and yes you will see your profile pic there. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;But what I'm talking about is the post page. That is the page where my blog's post resides. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;So after you publish your comment you will see it at the bottom of my post page.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tica, I think you are confusing the <b>comment</b> page with the <b>post</b> page. </p>
<p>The comment page is where you leave your comment. It is Blogger&#8217;s page, and yes you will see your profile pic there. </p>
<p>But what I&#8217;m talking about is the post page. That is the page where my blog&#8217;s post resides. </p>
<p>So after you publish your comment you will see it at the bottom of my post page.</p>
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		<title>By: TICA MACHA</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2049</link>
		<dc:creator>TICA MACHA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Aug 2007 23:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2049</guid>
		<description>I see my pic everytime I pay you a visit.  I'm the one on a horse.  You don't see it?  Huumm...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I see my pic everytime I pay you a visit.  I&#8217;m the one on a horse.  You don&#8217;t see it?  Huumm&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Blog Bloke</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2048</link>
		<dc:creator>Blog Bloke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Aug 2007 21:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2048</guid>
		<description>Hi Kirsten. I know it can be discouraging when you get no comments. Here's a tip. Like Darren mentioned, write a post like this one about commenting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kirsten. I know it can be discouraging when you get no comments. Here&#8217;s a tip. Like Darren mentioned, write a post like this one about commenting.</p>
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		<title>By: Blog Bloke</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2047</link>
		<dc:creator>Blog Bloke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Aug 2007 21:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2047</guid>
		<description>Tica, I answered some of your questions @ http://www.Blog Bloke.com/2007/08/do-you-like-my-video-widget.html&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;An avatar is the pic you choose for yourself at MyBlogLog. You will see the question mark beside your name in the comments section at the bottom of the post page.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tica, I answered some of your questions @ <a href="http://www.Blog" rel="nofollow">http://www.Blog</a> Bloke.com/2007/08/do-you-like-my-video-widget.html</p>
<p>An avatar is the pic you choose for yourself at MyBlogLog. You will see the question mark beside your name in the comments section at the bottom of the post page.</p>
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		<title>By: TICA MACHA</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2046</link>
		<dc:creator>TICA MACHA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Aug 2007 19:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2046</guid>
		<description>Sorry Bloke, I don't see a question mark and who's Avatar?&lt;br/&gt;This blogging stuff is getting more and more complicated.  Does YouTube inserts on a blog slow it down?  Recently, my blog takes forever to come up.  I'm an instant results kinda gal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry Bloke, I don&#8217;t see a question mark and who&#8217;s Avatar?<br />This blogging stuff is getting more and more complicated.  Does YouTube inserts on a blog slow it down?  Recently, my blog takes forever to come up.  I&#8217;m an instant results kinda gal.</p>
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		<title>By: Kirsten</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2045</link>
		<dc:creator>Kirsten</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Aug 2007 19:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2045</guid>
		<description>I comment mostly when I feel compelled to by the subject or just because.  I don't have a formula for leaving comments, but I don't leave comments when:&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;-I'm checking blogs in the morning before work.  The typing will wake Boyfriend (computer in bedroom for lack of anywhere else to put it)&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;-I'm at work because I don't want to get in trouble.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;-I'm in a hurry for any other reason.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;As for my own blog, I do get a bit disappointed when I don't get any comments, but I don't concern myself too much with them.  Lots of times my mom will email instead because she thinks you comment by the envelope, which is why I changed my comment saying.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I comment mostly when I feel compelled to by the subject or just because.  I don&#8217;t have a formula for leaving comments, but I don&#8217;t leave comments when:</p>
<p>-I&#8217;m checking blogs in the morning before work.  The typing will wake Boyfriend (computer in bedroom for lack of anywhere else to put it)</p>
<p>-I&#8217;m at work because I don&#8217;t want to get in trouble.</p>
<p>-I&#8217;m in a hurry for any other reason.</p>
<p>As for my own blog, I do get a bit disappointed when I don&#8217;t get any comments, but I don&#8217;t concern myself too much with them.  Lots of times my mom will email instead because she thinks you comment by the envelope, which is why I changed my comment saying.</p>
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		<title>By: Blog Bloke</title>
		<link>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2044</link>
		<dc:creator>Blog Bloke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Aug 2007 17:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.blogbloke.com/why-are-you-lurker-and-not-commenter/#comment-2044</guid>
		<description>I will most definitely join your MyBlogLog community. And now that you've joined, upload your pic and click on the question mark beside your name here and claim your blog so that your avatar will show.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I will most definitely join your MyBlogLog community. And now that you&#8217;ve joined, upload your pic and click on the question mark beside your name here and claim your blog so that your avatar will show.</p>
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