10 Reasons Why I Don’t Like Your Blog
This has been one of my more popular posts and years after I first wrote it I still get regular hits every day. I’m not sure why it is so popular but it seems to have struck a chord with my readers. What’s also amazing is the blog tips are still as relevant today as it was then and stood the test of time.
I thought I would feature it again now that I’m on Wordpress and I’m preparing a sequel that should be available shortly. So if you have already read it before then consider this a refresher course as it covers quite a few areas that we all need to review every once in awhile. For my new readers it should be an eye opening experience and I hope you enjoy reading as much as I did writing it.
I get a lot of questions about how to make a blog better, so I thought I would look at it from a different angle and tell you what I don’t like about some of the blogs that I see out there. If you think you fit into one or more of the categories, don’t take it personally. Just take it to heart and learn from it.
Trust me when I say that we’ve all been there — yours truly included, and I’m still learning every day.
1. Your blog looks like everyone else’s.
Answer: Learn a little HTML, CSS and Photoshop skills and convert that canned template into your own. Spruce it up a little. Change the colours, make a new graphic for the banner, or put the sidebar on the other side. Whatever… as long as it looks unique and like YOU.
2. Your blog is too hard to read.
Answer: Your fonts are too small, your template colors clash, there is not enough white space, your navigation is confusing or maybe you just can’t write and should consider getting into podcasting or something. I hear YouTube is doing well.
3. I ran out of patience waiting because your blog takes forever to load or is slow to respond.
Answer: Get rid of some of those javascripts running in the background, that silly flash intro, annoying opt-ins and pop-ups, or trim some weight off those bloated graphics that take forever to load and soak up way too much bandwidth. And while you’re at it get rid of those old school HTML tables. Make the switch over to CSS stylesheets. It will be time worth spent.
4. Get rid of those useless widgets.
Answer: Some widgets are useful, but most are just plain useless and offer no value to your blog. They can also hurt your blog because they use javascripts which can slow down your site (read #3 again). Remember - content is king so get rid of the fluff. I will visit your blog if you have something interesting to say - not to see what the weather is in your home town.
5. I won’t leave a comment on your blog because your posts sound too authoritative, are too boring, too argumentative, you force me to login, you never responded to my previous comments, or you shot me down the last time that I offered a different opinion. Shall I continue (as I pause to catch my breath)?
Answer: Learn to write in a style that is non-confrontational, lively and conversational. Don’t be an arrogant know-it-all and write to entertain, not drain. Above all, make it easy to leave comments, be courteous and try to respond to commentors that took the time to write. Cultivating a community spirit will do wonders for increasing your traffic.
6. You don’t seem to have any opinions about anything.
Answer: Some bloggers are afraid to speak up because they are afraid of being flamed. Heck, sticks and stones… remember it is your blog and you can delete those unsavoury trolls if you wish. So don’t be a wussy, and above all don’t be a bore. We have TV for that.
7. Your blog is on Facebook.
Answer: Nuff said. Ok, maybe that sounds arrogant but the fact is there are a lot of bloggers out there that won’t even look at Facebook. So if you want to be a serious blogger (which is why you are probably reading this post) then you should seriously consider the “blog” platform that you are using.
8. You don’t post consistently.
Answer: Nobody wants to visit a dead blog. There is a controversy in the blogosphere about how often you should post, but the bottom line is “originality”, “quality” and “consistency” are the keywords when it comes to posting. So before you sit down to write put some thought into it and make certain that you have something interesting to say. Try to write regularly with a schedule that works for you. But don’t feel obligated to write every day.
9. Your blog discusses controversial topics that are not to my liking.
Answer: I’m a firm believer in having a niche topic for your blog, especially for business. Controversial topics run the risk of turning off potential readers — especially politics or religion for example. If you want to speak your mind on controversial topics then you should consider creating a separate blog for that.
10. You don’t link.
Answer: Commonly known as link-love there are several reasons why you should link. Firstly, when you cut and paste from another source you absolutely MUST provide a link back to the source. Nobody likes plagiarism. Plagiarism covers more than just copying and pasting. Just saying.
Secondly, if I have linked to your posts and you never returned the favour, well… let’s just say that I’m put off and I probably won’t be linking (or visiting) back at ya again. Or the least you could do is email me a thank you or leave a comment on my blog. It’s just common courtesy.
There’s another even more important reason for linking. That is how Google ranks websites/blogs, and the more seed that you sow, the more you will also reap. That’s not only for good SEO but it is a spiritual law as well.
*This post has been updated since it’s original posting on August 10th, 2006.
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Hey, Blog-Bloke. I particularly liked your suggestion of adding links within the text of your blog. I have completely missed that whole dimension in my blog. I don’t know what you mean by CSS, but I will investigate that. Thanks for the tips.
Here you go Gem: CSS
I would post replies… if people posted comments!
That said, great post - all things to bear in mind when posting.
Spoken like a true Bloke of Blogs. Nicely done! And I completely agree on the comment thing. I find it arrogant that some blogs don’t allow comments at all - yet will invite trackbacks. As if the only people allowed to join the conversation are those who are already bloggers… ’nuff said. In fact, you said it better than I just did!
Part Time Entrepreneur, I’m honored to be your first commenter amongst many more to come I’m sure.
Thanks for the kind comments Wendy, and double ditto on the arrogance thing. Even more astounding is some so-called blogs don’t even offer trackback. They sound more like a sermon from the mount than a blog. But that’s just my humble opinion.
Ironically, your page is 146KB to load, with 15 different different scripts being loaded up.
Excellent tips. I’m trying to make my blog a little more personable. I made my own banner and I updated my “About” page.
Thanks “anonymous”. I haven’t verified your figures and I never said to get rid of all scripts. On my ‘puter the page loads quickly, but if anyone else is having a problem constructive criticism is always appreciated.
Thanks Tim and I’m glad if it helped.
” You don’t seem to have any opinions about anything. Answer: Some bloggers are afraid to speak up because they are afraid of being flamed. Heck, sticks and stones… remember it is your blog and you can delete those unsavoury trolls if you wish.”
For the last 6 weeks, some of my enteries could make the frontpage of social nbookmarking sites like Fark, Shoutwire, Stumble Upon and Reddit. I suffered a lot of negative comments. I guessthat negative comments are an essential part of growing up as a blogger.